Today’s blog is about energy leaks and how to protect our energy field from people or circumstances that take energy away from us. Be mindful of where your energy goes and what hooks your energy. It is very simple : energy follows thought. Wherever our thoughts are, our energy follows. Ask yourself are my thoughts with me or with the other person ? In a meeting for example , who do you give your power to ? How much of your energy is given to the approval of others ? Have much of your thoughts and energy are with you?
We might be plug into certain people when we are seeking their approval , their attention or feedback to make us feel good . But for how long? and what about if their feedback is negative?, destructive? or if the person doesn’t give us their approval ? Plugging into others for energy and a feel good factor is not sustainable in the long run. It is a short term fix.
On the other hand, people might plug into your own energy field , having you drained and depleted at the end of the day. These people are the so called emotional vampires. They don’t have their own source of power and seek your energy for their own replenishment. However this is not suistainable for you or them.
For long term happiness you want to step into your own source of energy, your own sense of worth.
The only way for positive relationships is an interchange and synergy of positive energy between individuals that hold their own energy source, independently.
To build your own power is essential to look after yourself, nourish your mind, body and spirit.
Lots of love & positive energy to you all,
Maria
My dear friends,
This blog is about a topic I often come across while doing Coaching. Being Selfish becomes challenging when you have a strong sense of Loyalty or Integrity as values. I experienced this myself and it took me a while to grasp the possibility of being Loyal and selfish at the same time.
I want to share this simple idea: How about you honouring the other side of Loyalty ? The side of Loyalty to yourself, to your plans, your life , your time , your space? It is impossible to give someone love and energy from a good place if we are not fully replenished and charged of energy and love ourselves. And how are we supposed to ‘recharge our batteries and replenish our energy’ if we are not selfish ?
You owe being Loyal to yourself. Give yourself permission to do so! That’s when miracles will start happening in your life and you will be in a trully good place to give others.
Lots of love & positive energy to you all,
Maria
Take this extract from Esther & Jerry Hicks ‘The Law of Attraction ‘ book for inspiration:
‘You cannot perceive life from any perspective other than from that of yourself….
Selfishness is the sense of self.
Unless you are selfish enough to care about how you feel-and therefore direct your thoughts in such a way that you are allowing a true connection to your Inner Being- you have nothing to give another anyway.
Everyone is selfish. It is not possible to be otherwise.
Hello my beautifuls,
There is a lot going on about the Law of Attraction and even though I am fascinated about the subject I always had this feeling of wanting to know more. Something was missing in all the literature and videos I’ve been reading and ‘absorbing’, some key questions weren’t answered so that I could say yes ! definetely now I get it and I can trully put in in action.
I believe I had a great understanding & awareness of how the Law works and had some good manifestations in my personal life as examples and evidence that I was on the right track. However ,some key questions weren’t answered like, What to do when doubt creeps in ? What to do to raise our vibration continuosly and stay in it for as long as we could so we can attract what is it that we want? How do we know we are in the right track? How can we use our emotions to guide us to what is it that we want ?What to do when negative emotions take over ? and many more…
My logical side of the brain wasn’t satisfied and wanted more.
Thanks god I found what I believe is the next step in my understanding and practice of this Law which first came to me in the Form of ‘The Law of Attraction Cards’ by Esther & Jerry Hicks. Well, I must admit I recognise Esther Hicks from The Secret video but what attracts me to the 60-Cards deck was the practicality of having them in my office as a constant reminder of the Law -and a beautiful one (the illustrations on the cards are superb so my visual side of the brain bought into the idea)
The cards were only the beginning and this is were the Magic begins. The cards started to make so much sense and they seemed to hold the answers to my deep & not so deep questions on this Law …well, in a matter of 2 weeks one of my best friends insisted in giving me a present of a Book she wanted me to have ( without her knowing anything about the cards)…yes, you guessed it The book version of my card deck ! ’The Law of Attraction and How to Make it work for you ‘ Esther and Jerry Hicks The Teachings of Abraham.
I laughed when I read the foreword saying ….’look at what you’re holding in your hands.You did that.You put this book right here,right where it is,right in front of your eyes.You manifested it’…..
What a book , all I can say is that for now my thrist for knowledge on the Law is satisfied. Since then the video of these authors and The Teachings of Abraham came to my life and I throughlouly devoured it. The questions are finally answered in a logical way that made total sense to me.
I highly recommend it as a MUST read if you want to trully understand and put in practice the Law to the ‘next level’.
Also available the magnificient ‘Ask and it is given’ ; ‘The amazing power of deliberate Intend’.For more information please visit www.abraham-hicks.com
Lots of love , positive energy & blessings for you all and let’s keep ‘manifesting’ until we meet again .
xxxx
Maria